Players

Many may not realize that there are semi-distinctive differences between players and sluts. Sluts may not necessarily be players, and players may not necessarily be sluts. Sluts tend to be defined as loose or easy, and to some extent, may not have very high standards as to whom they choose to have sexual relations with. Players, however, they're different kind of peoples. Players are more selective with who they decide to prey on; they select only the best because they know they have what it takes to get what they want, and because they know they have that power, they abuse it. Now, real talk here, I gotta give it up to all my players out there, because ya'll know how to play the game, and that's what players do, they PLAY (Ladies, ya'll can be players too;]). Most people fail to see that being a player, in it's own way, truly is an art form. A pretty face can only get you so far; it takes character, wit, strategy, impressive use of word play, and just down right swagg, to be a true player. Players see what they want, and they know exactly what to do to get it; how? Because they understand the thought process of the typical male/female and they use that knowledge to their advantage; they play to win, not to lose.

Now, this is where the bad part of being a player kicks in. Let's be honest, players know they're players; they know that they can get what they want, and therefore they abuse it. It's typically guys that abuse it, and guys lemme tell you this: A reputation as a player is just as bad as a reputation as a slut. Yes, I do believe that being a player in it's own way is a good thing, because it means you're smart enough to play, HOWEVER, I believe in using the power for good, NOT EVIL. Using your power to your advantage is acceptable under circumstances in which your intentions are respectable, but abusing your power and just using it to hop into the pants of every fine piece of ass IS A NO-NO. Guys, no girl is going to trust a player, for the obvious reason, she thinks she's just another girl you're tryna play! Girls aren't that naive, so if we know you're a player, and you're tryna spit game, not gunna lie, it may work for a bit, but deep inside we know that it means nothing! So assuming that one day after you've finally decided to give up the game, and you find a nice girl worth sticking around for, and she knows what kind of guy you used to be, you just up and fucked yourself over because you abused your power and are now nothing more than a stereotype in her eyes. So all the cute shit you try doing for her, and all the sweet nothings you force feed her are now useless, because she's thinkin' you've probably done the same shit for every other girl you've ever played, and she's not going to be the one who knew better but let it happen to her anyway.

LADIES: Don't be afraid to play the game, but like I instructed the boys, don't abuse it. It's a good skill to have, but like I always say, everything's better in moderation;]

Do yo' thaaaaang;]