Wednesday, May 12, 2010

Signs That Indicate Your Man is Cheating

No intro needed, I'm going to get straight to the point.

Signs That Indicate Your Man is Cheating:
  • He gets mad at you and/or picks fights with you for almost no reason whatsoever: Picking fights with you is the easiest way to get away from you without being interrogated about where he's going, what he's doing, or who he's with. Think about it, if you're mad at someone, it gives you an excuse to not talk to them or be around them, giving him the perfect getaway.
  • He's constantly telling you how much he loves you or cares for you, even if you don't reciprocate: He does this in hopes of reassuring you as to prevent the possibility of you becoming insecure about the relationship, and thus become suspicious of his loyalty to you.
  • He accuses you of cheating: Basically, he's just trying to direct the negative attention away from himself to you by accusing you, and by doing this, he hopes to make it seem as though he would be so devastated if you were to cheat on him, to give you the impression that he would never do that to you. Plus he wants to make you feel guilty, which also, in a way helps him.
  • He gets overly upset when you hang out with other guys: Again, he's trying to make you feel guilty and direct the negative attention to you. But this also shows that he's insecure of himself and your loyalty to him. When a guy cheats on his girl, he still wants to be with his girl, he just wants other girls too, so he's trying to get the best of both worlds, which is the reason they cheat instead of just breaking up with their girlfriend. So because he knows that he's unfaithful, he's insecure about the fact that there's a possibility of you not staying faithful, and that scares him because he still doesn't want any other guy to have you. He's just selfish.
  • He answers direct questions indirectly: For example, if you were to ask him a question like, "Is there another girl," or "are you cheating?" he would respond indirectly as to say something like, "do I look like I would be cheating?" In his mind, technically, he's not lying, so it must be okay.
  • He gets overly defensive: Enough said.
  • He goes into too much detail about where he was: For example, if he said that he went out to eat with his family or something that night, and when you ask how it was and this nigga goes into unnecessary detail about insignificant things like the color of the paint on the wall, this means he's probably lying. By giving you a lot of detail, he hopes to "prove" to you that he was really there, but really, who the fuck notices a bunch of random shit like that, and cares enough to talk about it later. Real talk, from personal experience, that's the kind of shit I pull on my parents when I lie to them about where I am.

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