Q&A

It's getting too late to blog like usual, plus I'm lazy, so I'm just going to answer another question someone asked me on my formspring that I thought some of my readers might find useful as well.

Question: "do you think girls can text a guy first all the time or will he get annoyed?"

Answer: I actually think it's good to text the guy first sometimes, but not all the time, because like I said in previous posts, everything is better in moderation. It's good to text him first sometimes to let him know that if he's as interested as you are, it's okay for him to hit you up, but not too much to the point where he just thinks you're annoying and overbearing. Trust me, if this guy likes you, or is even KINDA feelin' you, he'll be hittin' you up all the time anyway.

Can Boys and Girls Be "Best Friends"

I think it's safe to say that we've all had a "best friend" of the opposite gender. And a friend of mine requested that for my next topic I should discuss whether or not it's possible for a girl and a boy to be best friends without ruining that platonic relationship. The truth is: it's not. Simple as that, but what's not simple is what KIND of friendship you have with other person, and whether or not you're in a committed relationship.

If he's the kind of "best friend" that you hang out with one-on-one regularly, or talk to on the phone when you're bored, etc. that's a no go (unless you don't mind risking the possibility of falling for him, or vice versa). Basically, girls, it's when you treat him like you would a boyfriend because you're "comfortable" with him. You may not think you're doing it, but there kinda IS a reason why people always ask you if ya'll are dating.. OBVI! And if the pattern continues, there's no way in hell at least one of you isn't going to fall for the other. Feelings develop, it's inevitable, and spending THAT much time together makes it nearly impossible for the relationship to remain platonic.

On the flip side, there's the kind of "best friend" that has boundaries. This is the kind of friendship where, whether the guy likes it or not, he's stuck in the "friend zone". This is the "best friend" that you go to, to talk about OTHER guys. This is the guy you occasionally have lunch dates with where you update him on your love life. This is the guy you hit up to go shopping with you when your girls are busy; basically, girls, if the activities you two engage in together are that of which you would normally do with a girl friend, he's stuck so far in the friend zone, he's almost gay. This guy can also sometimes be referred to as your "brother." (and there's STILL a possibility that he's going to fall for you, even if you do see him as just a friend)

When you're in a relationship is when things begin to get complicated, only because when you see that you're not the only one in your boyfriends life, you begin to wonder where you stand, and that's when the insecurities begin to settle in. But there are signs that can help you determine whether or not your boyfriends best friend poses a threat to you and your relationship, here are a few:

• When you guys are hanging out, he's texting her
• When you guys get into a fight, he complains to her about you
• ****He seems to feel more comfortable confiding in her rather than you
• He hits her up to kick it one on one when he knows you're not doing anything
• He tries to hide it when he and his best friend kick it because he thinks you'll get mad
• He brings her up in random conversations
  

A relationship consists of two parts, and partnership and a friendship, so when your boyfriend is having an easier time confiding in another girl rather than his own girlfriend, that friendship is no longer there, and neither is that trust that comes with it. Instead, it has moved its way over to his "best friend", and that's when you need to start worrying.


*This applies to boys as well, I just used girls as an example...cus I'm a girl, it's just easier LOL

Balance of Power

In the continuous struggle for power, ladies, I'm sorry to have to say that we're losing. When I say power, I don't mean power in the real world, I mean emotional power; power in a relationship. Whether you're just dating or in a full blown relationship, it seems like the little games we play never go away, and as much as we want to say that the games begin to fade once the relationship starts getting serious, it doesn't.

Girls are emotional creatures, and guys easily play off our emotions because we let them. They know little tricks to play and little things to say that they KNOW will get under our skin and get a reaction out of us. When it comes down to it, it really is about who caves first, it's about the one who cares enough about the relationship to yield to the other person. It really is true what they say: the person who cares less holds more power. Girls, we need power! And the truth is, is that no guy can take power from you, you give it to him, and whether it's knowingly or not, it's happening. Ideally, there should be an equal balance of power within the relationship, but that's not the case in some situations. Because we're so emotional, it's easier for us to trip over things that they do, and like I mentioned in the post "The Secret" for some reason it makes us like them more.

Ex.: Have you ever been in a situation where your boyfriend/the guy you're dating does something that he expects will make you mad (eg. Blows you off), but he "does it by accident", then when you don't get mad, he's mad that you're not mad! Then you're like WTF mate did you WANT me to be mad??

*Point: Yes, he did want you to be mad, because when you're mad, he wins because you're trippin', and trippin' is an indication that you care, and when you care it means you like him, and it shows, and when you show it, you give him power; and what is it that we all want? POWER. And bitch, you just gave it to him!

So, how do we gain power back? Stop caring, or at least act like it, because chances are if this guy likes you enough, he's going to see that you don't care, and he's gunna start trippin' himself, and he's going to make it his mission to MAKE you care, and what happens when he's trippin'? He's giving you power, and that's a goood thing;]

And to all my ladies out there who "play it like a guy" kudos to you, cus you know how to play the game;]

Playing it like a guy is basically everything I mentioned above, but the roles are switched so that the girl is the "guy in the relationship"

How to Approach a Girl in a Puplic Place

Yesterday, someone on formspring came to me for advice on how to approach a girl in a public place, and I decided to blog about it because there's a good chance that other guys would like to know too:

Question: "Hey Ive been reading your blogs. i have a question, how should a guy approach a girl they see that appeals to them in places like the mall or the street. thank =)"

So, let me first bring up an example, then the advice will follow.

A few months ago, I was approached in a parking lot as I was leaving the gym. A guy ran up to me and asked me, very politely, if I would be willing to go on a date with him. At first I said no, but this guy was such a gentleman, and asked so sweetly and genuinely that I felt like he deserved a chance. He eventually persuaded me to agree, so I gave him my number and we ended up going on a date two weeks later. Let me just mention that this guy wasn't a super good looking guy either, so it wasn't his looks that convinced me to go out with him, it was purely due to the manner in which he approached me. Plus, it takes a lot of courage just to walk up to a girl knowing the risk of being turned down, and doing it anyway.

The reason I mentioned the example above was to show you guys that you can approach a girl you don't know and there's always a chance she might respond positively if you play your cards right. Of course not all girls are nice, and there are some out there who'll be a bitch about it, but in a larger sense, most girls will try to be polite about it, and the worst they can do, really, is say no. So, with that in mind, here comes the advice portion:

How to approach a girl in a public place:

• Don't blatantly holler: Yelling things like "damn, ma" or "hey sexy" is not going to get you anywhere. No girl is going to respond positively to a guy that she thinks is just looking at her like a piece of meat. Plus it's just rude and disrespectful.
• Don't be cocky about it: If you're a good-looking guy who knows he can get a girl, don't be comin up to us with that kind of attitude like you already know we're going to say yes. You already have your looks, so don't ruin it with your personality, because chances are, even if we do think you're cute, we'll say no just because we don't want to give you the satisfaction.
• Be polite: Enough said.
• It's okay to be nervous, and show it: Real talk, if a girl sees how nervous you are when you approach her, her first reaction is going to be to smile, I guarantee it; first off because she's flattered that she makes you nervous in that way, and second of all.. that shit's pretty damn cute, not gunna lie. And even though we see that you're nervous, we know that it takes a lot of courage and confidence to approach us
  
• DO NOT get your friends to holler for you: Seriously, stuff like that is so junior high, and it makes you look like a coward that can't handle his business. If you want to get a girl, man up and do it yourself, and trust me, we'll respect that you've got enough balls to walk up to a girl and put yourself out there like that
  
• Throw in a few subtle compliments: Every girl likes compliments, so if you think she's pretty, don't be afraid to let her know, but emphasis on the word subtle. Don't shower her with compliments and continuously tell her how gorgeous you think she is, because truth is, it's cheesy, and it makes you look desperate and dramatic.
  
• Don't give up right away: If you approach the girl, and the first thing you say to her is "Hi, I think you're pretty, can I get your number?" I'm not gunna lie, unless you're God's gift to women, there's a good chance we'll either be hesitant to say yes or just say no all together. But don't give up right away, sell it! Make her feel like if she agrees, she won't be tied down to anything, that it's completely casual and that you're the kind of guy worth getting to know. Like I mentioned in my example, when the guy asked me out the first time, I said no, but he was able to change my mind by doing almost everything I mentioned above!
  
• Know when to give up: If you've tried your best, was a complete gentleman, and she still says no, don't push it. Keep it classy, thank her for her time and just walk away, sorry, maybe next time:T
  

Sluts

So a lot of people that have been reading my blog suggested that for my next topic I should talk about sluts; they didn't quite specify what exactly they meant by that, but apparently sluts are interesting? So, let me begin by clarifying that the word slut is HIGHLY over used these days and is taken out of context in most situations it's used in. So, as usual, to make it easier to read I'm going to break it down into a list of what classifies a slut and what doesn't; and we're off!

OH! But first, let me just mention that a slut can be a BOY OR A GIRL. It's a total double-standard that girls get looked down upon for doing things that a guy gets praised for. A slut is a slut, and a slut, by definition is anyone who is sexually promiscuous.

• A girl who has sex with her boyfriend and only her boyfriend is not a slut: It's only when she's having sex with her boyfriend, but is bangin four other guys on the side; or when she has multiple boyfriends, one after the other within a short period of time, and is hittin ALLA that, is it appropriate for her to be classified as a slut.
• If you make out with a lot of people, IT COUNTS: Just because you're not having intercourse, it doesn't mean you're not displaying slutty behavior. Let's just say, whether it's cookies or cake you're passin around town, either way, everyone within the tri-state area is gettin' a little somethin' somethin'
• Some girls are "too nice", but most girls just use it as an excuse: Look, being "too nice" is just a nicer way of being classified as easy. Look at it this way, if a guy can easily ask you to perform sexual favors for him, and you're "too nice" to say no, you're easy. Sorry, I know it sucks to hear, but it is what it is. Like really, if you wanna be nice, walk him to his car or something, don't dome him up once you get there
  
• Oral and manual sex counts as sex: Again, just because his penis doesn't enter your vagina, doesn't mean it doesn't count. Giving out free handjobs is just as bad as having promiscuous sex
• A reputation as a slut never goes away: I know it sucks, and when it comes to this, people can change, but a reputation as a slut will forever haunt you unless you meet someone who knows nothing about your promiscuous past. People talk, and most people these days can't keep a secret, so if you domed up Alejandro in the bathroom at Jack in the Box during his lunch break last week, I guarantee that everyone and their mom has already heard about it. Something about "sluts", everyone is always so concerned about what they're up to, so be aware that if you do something, people are going to talk about it, and when you do finally meet that special person that makes you want to change your ways, he's going to hear about it, and it's going to make it a lot harder for him to trust you, or like you, or in some cases.. respect you. I know it sucks to hear, but I personally know people who've gone through it, and you can't imagine the pain and regret that they go through because of their past slutty mistakes.
  
• Guys can be classified as sluts too, and in the long run they're worse off: This is referring to the bullet point above. Look, bottom line is, is that no girl wants a slut for a boyfriend. Sure those kind of boys are fun to mess around with, but no girl really takes them seriously because we don't trust them. For some odd reason, guys don't mind dating a "slutty" girl as much as girls mind dating a "slutty" boy, idk, it's weird. So if you're a slutty guy that's finally found "the one" that's going to make you change your ways, but she has a hard time believing that you'll really change, you're going to get your heart broken, and you're going to have no one else to blame but yourself. Sorry:[
  
• Being a slut doesn't necessarily make you a bad person: Just because a slut might have an "overly healthy sexual appetite," and may have "little less than strong values" doesn't mean that he/she is an evil or corrupt being. A slut's just a slut, so be it.
  
• If you know a slut, don't call her out on it, even if it's just a joke: Alright, so really, calling someone out on being a slut especially in public is just plain rude (This mostly happens, though, in a joking manner.) If a girl is a slut, chances are she probably knows, but being called out on it can really offend her. To be honest, in my opinion, she has no right to be offended, she put it on herself. But imagine if you were overweight and someone kept throwing fat jokes in your face, like seriously, how much would that hurt you. And what's worse, is that she can't even defend herself, cus it's true! So yeah, if you know one, just keep your comments to yourself, it's just polite.

P.S. I just used girls as an example in most of the bullet points, but this applies to guys too.

Boys: Girl Advice?

So the other day, a friend of mine mentioned that he had been reading my blogs and suggested that for my next topic I should advise guys on "how to get girls." To be honest, I'm no relationship expert, I've never even been in a real relationship. I'm just another girl with her own thoughts and opinions, and whether or not you choose agree or disagree with them is beyond my control. I speak my mind, and express myself in a manner that assumes that others share the same views as me, and if you don't, so be it. When I first started this blog, I thought it'd be just another random blog where I just talk about nonsense that only a few of my close friends would even bother to read; but to my surprise, it's turned into something I hadn't expected. So what started as random thoughts has turned into.. something else?

So imma help my nigga out and blog some advice, not necessarily on how to get girls, but just some suggestions that could possibly strengthen your chances with a girl you may be tryna get at, let's see how this goes!

• Be yourself!: I know you might hear this all the time, but it's true! Trust me, girls know when a guy is puttin up a front, tryna be something he's not. Embrace who you are and use it to your advantage. If you're a nice guy, BE a nice guy! Don't think that girls like bad boys so you should try acting like one, cus the second you stop being yourself, we can tell right away that something's not right.
• Don't play too many games: Games are, in a way, good at the beginning, but if you play too long, the girl is going to get tired of the same old shit and give up on you cus she thinks you're too complicated (and vice versa)
• Be a gentleman: These days, gentlemen are really hard to find, so doing little things like opening her door, pulling out her seat, offering to pay, or offering to drive really makes you stand out amongst other guys. But be genuine about it. Being a gentleman isn't just something you do when you're trying to get at a girl, then once you get her you give up; it's a lifestyle. Sure, after a while opening doors and whatnot gets tiring, and we won't expect you guys to do it all the time. But being a gentleman should be in your nature, which means treating your girl with respect, and not just YOUR girl, but any girl. And when a girl sees that you know how to treat a lady, that's a MAJOR turn-on. (I personally know a guy like this, and he's soo genuine; I would date him in a second)
  
• Don't over do it: Okay, real shit, I know there's a lot of guys out there who try WAY too hard to impress girls. Whether it's buy showering her with gifts, compliments, or over-playing the "gentleman card." We can tell when a guy is trying too hard, and to be honest, it's a turn-off. Just play it cool, and chances are we'll like the fact that it doesn't seem like you're trying to rush into anything
• Don't be blowin' up their phone 24/7: Okay, it's nice that ya'll are tryna talk to us and stuff, but we have lives of our own, and you texting us all the time is kind of a turn-off cus it makes you seem clingy, and it's a lot easier to get annoyed of you when you're always talkin to us about random shit. Give us some time to miss you! I guarantee that if she likes you enough and you guys haven't talked in a while, she'll end up caving and texting you anyway.
• Be careful what you say: If ya'll are in the super early stages of talking, like you guys kinda almost just left the friend zone, hold off on saying stuff like "I miss you" or "I really wanna see you" especially if you're not at least 90% sure she likes you back, cus if you do, there's a good chance she might be sayin "woah, what's going on" in her head, and you might scare her away
• Don't joke about sensitive things: Even if you think it's just a joke, you never know that the topic you bring up might hit close to home. Things like religion, weight, her past, etc. are probably not good things to joke about, cus it might blow up in your face. Depending on the girl of course, and your prior relationship with her.
• Be spontaneous!: I'm not sure about other girls, but I know that at least for me, spontaneity is something I look for in a guy. I want someone that's down to have a good time, and isn't afraid to surprise me or be surprised. But of course, everything is better in moderation;]
  
• Don't over analyze their actions (this applies to girls too): Just because a girl says something or does something that MAYBE could be a sign that she likes you, doesn't mean she meant it that way, so just be careful, but if those signs are consistent, then maybe she's trying to tell you something
• Play it cool: It works; just trust me on this one. No girl wants a guy that seems too eager to get into anything, or at least I don't; it makes you seem kinda desperate.
• Don't be afraid to hit her up first: Trust me, if we're even KINDA feelin' you, we really do want you guys to hit us up. Don't be scared that she doesn't want to talk to you, cus you'll never know until you try. (Oh, and if she really doesn't want to talk to you, you'll know within the first few texts, and if that's the case, you should just stop. LOL sorry, maybe next time:T)

Well, that's all I can really think of at the moment, but I hope it helps? If not, I'm sorry, I tried hahah

The Secret

Boys purposely do small things to make girls trip over them, while secretly trying to hide the fact that they're trippin themselves.

Let me elaborate on this a bit for those of you who don't quite understand what I'm trying to get at.
Ladies, I know we've all been through it; this should jog your memory:

• He doesn't text you back in the middle of a conversation
• He'll flake on you last minute
• He'll "unknowingly" blow you off
• He'll keep you waiting on him
  
• etc.
  

All things of which really aren't that big a deal, but they're things that bug. They're little things that'll keep you trippin for about 20 minutes at most. These things are their little tricks to keep us trippin over them, which makes us think more about them, which, in turn, makes us like them more. And it is true what they say, for some odd reason, girls like guys who treat them like shit (when I say shit, it's just for emphasis, it's really not that bad); and they know! They know it works! That's why they continue to do it. They know that every time they don't text you back, that you're thinking about it; that you're wondering why they aren't responding, or if you said something wrong.

But look, to be honest, girls do that too; maybe not as much as boys do, but we do it, and when we do, they're lowkey trippin too, they're just a lot better at hiding it.

Btw, this "game" I'm talking about mostly only applies during the early stages of dating

Oh, and you have to like the person enough for this to work, cus some people try playin this game and if the other person you're playin it on doesn't like you enough, they could care less if you text them back, blow them off, etc. LMAO

Signs That Indicate Your Girl Is Crazy/Complicated

So I think it's safe to say that the #1 thing I hear guys complain about is how crazy and/or complicated girls are. Look, to be honest, most girls really aren't that complicated. Sure, we have things that bother us, but they're things we can get over. There really are only a few simple rules that we take seriously, which are:

• Don't lie
• Don't cheat
• Don't beat us
• And DON'T blow us off

But of course, not all girls are that simple, and the reason I bring up this topic is because it just happened that today, a particular "crazy girlfriend" came up in a conversation, and I couldn't help but wonder why guys are drawn to these kind of girls. Just like how girls are drawn to bad boys; boys are drawn to complicated girls. These kind of girls really do make me angry, because they make the rest of us "normal" girls look bad. So just like how I made a list for the boys, I'm going to make a list for the girls.

Signs That Indicate Your Girl Is Crazy/Complicated:

• She calls you once and when you don't pick up, she'll call you 4 more times, text you, leave you voice-mails, call your house, and @ you on twitter
• When you finally call her back, she's mad at you for not picking up your phone or responding within 5 minutes
• She'll read through all your text messages when you're not around, or may even go to the extent of stealing your phone when you're not looking
• She knows all the passwords to all your social networking sites (ex. myspace, facebook etc.) and she'll read through all your shit regularly
• She'll ask you where you are about 10 times periodically throughout the day, and if you lie, SHE WILL FIND OUT.
• She physically abuses you (some girls really do that)
• She'll forbid you from having any female friends that are even mildly attractive; overweight with buckteeth? she'll make an exception.
• She'll get mad at you for almost no reason at all, then when you ask her what you did wrong, she won't tell you, and replies with any variation of the phrase "figure it out/ you should know"
• She's not afraid to act a fool in public; she can and WILL pick a fight and make a scene at the Cerritos Mall
• She'll curse you out and disrespect you in front of all your friends and not give a damn
• If you forget to call her that night, she'll get mad, tell all her friends, and not talk to you for a week
• If you don't respond to her texts within 15 minutes, she'll have already sent you 3 or 4 texts within that time limit
• She EXPECTS extravagant gifts for every holiday, anniversary, and some "just because" gifts. (Girls, if you fall under this category, please understand that we're still young, and half these boys don't have jobs, so they can't afford to spoil you like you EXPECT them to)
• And when you do get her a gift, she expected better..
• Again, she EXPECTS you to pay for EVERYTHING. (Ladies, it's nice to offer to pay for stuff sometimes, it''s just polite. He's not your credit card, he's your boyfriend)

Prom Diet?

While other girls begin to hit the gym daily and eat one meal a day, my prom diet consists of:

• Three full meals a day
• One snack in between every meal
• Gym three times a week
• 4 bottles of water a day

I'm tryna gain weight, not lose it! Hopefully by the time Prom comes around I'll have my ideal body, or at least something near it, I just hope I'll be able to stick to it!

I bought my Prom dress today with Vivian and Ava; it's royal blue with diamond accents. To be honest, I'm not so sure I'm completely satisfied with the dress I picked out. I feel like I was kind of pressured into getting it. I mean don't get me wrong, the final decision was all me, but while I was trying it on, everyone kept telling me how nice it looked and I guess I went against my own instinct and just believed what everyone else was telling me. So I took the dress home and tried it on again, and it's not quite the look that I was going for. Fuck, I regret buying it when I was so unsure. Oh well, too late now..

"I'm Not Like Other Guys"

Ladies, we've all heard it, the infamous, "I'm not like other guys" line. Either that, or some other variation of that. And you know what I've come to notice? I've noticed that it's always the guys that are just like other guys that try to defend themselves by saying that "not all guys are the same." From personal experience, just about every single guy who has spit that line to me has been just like the last guy; the typical playa playa, tryna spit some game to make me think that maybe this one's different, that maybe he is a true gentleman, that maybe he's the kind of guy who really knows how to treat a woman. SIKE.

Guys, if you truly think that you ARE a different kind of guy, and that really, all guys AREN'T the same, then show us, don't just tell us. Look, every girl wants to believe that her man is "different" but deep down, we all secretly "know" that he's not. So prove us wrong! We really do want to be proven wrong. These days, I feel like chivalry truly is dead, until somebody proves me otherwise.

Btw, I don't speak for ALL girls, this is just perspectives from me and the people that I know.

The List

So the other day, someone asked me a question on my formspring that I had a lot of fun answering; the question was, "what do you consider a turn-off about a guy?"

So this post is going to be dedicated to that question. It's going to be a list composed of all the negative qualities, characteristics, and habits that I (and most likely other girls as well) find unattractive about a guy. It's going to be a long list, so check back every-so-often and I probably would have added more to the list by then. Here we go!

• Boys who have bad hygiene: walkin around with stains all up on your clothes, and oil all up in your hair, with breath that smells like you haven't brushed your teeth in a week is GROSS! what girl would want to be around that?
• Boys who make the girl drive them around when they have a car: okay, really now, it's cool that the girl drives sometimes, and we'll even try to offer, but if you're a guy, be a gentleman and take your girl out, we don't want to have to feel like we're the boy in the relationship.
  
• Boys who can't pay for shit: okay, this is a touchy one. We understand if you don't have the money to pay for dates and whatnot, it's only when we see that you go out and spoil yourself, blowin money on drugs and alcohol, then comin back to us sayin you don't have any money; nigga, you know where it went, and now you're high AND broke!
• Boys who guilt girls into liking them: Enough said.
• Boys who brag about how bad they are: We're growing up now, so what once was considered "cool", now just seems juvenile. Oh congrats you got shit-faced last night, got caught buying/selling drugs, got arrested, and have a -D average; good luck with that!
  
• Boys with bad skin and/or teeth: I'm sorry, but as "shallow" as it may sound, skin and teeth are a pretty big deal; well for me at least. A guy could have everything going on for him (appearance wise) but if the skin or teeth are bad, it pretty much ruins it :/
• Boys who are sluts: Boys, lemme tell you straight up, a reputation as a slut never goes away, TRUST ME. I know guys that are well into their twenties that still suffer the consequences of their past slutty mistakes. No girl wants a guy that's been with every other girl around town, and that she can't trust.
• BOYS WHO FLAKE
• Boys who wear outdated gear: To clarify what this means is, basically, when you're rockin' gear that's been played for a while now. Which means, that whole "jerkin" era swagg=NO, any variation of Hollister, Abercrombie, Aeropostle, etc. =NO, XXL white tees when you obviously look like you should be wearing a size S/M =NO, hypebeasts= NO, button up shirts that show more chest than anyone wants to see= NO
• Boys who try and impress a girl by buying her expensive things and a lot of it, BEFORE THEY'RE ACTUALLY DATING: Look, it's nice that ya'll would try and impress us and stuff, but if you show up on a second date with a Tiffany's bracelet and a puppy, YOU WILL FREAK US OUT. No girl wants to feel trapped in a relationship with material things, before they're even in one
• Boys that are "too cool"
• Boys that are too touchy: If you're not my boyfriend or we're not close enough on that friend level, paws off, it's creepy.
  
• Boys who will constantly call you beautiful, then turn around and call every other girl beautiful: If you over use the word, it loses its meaning! Then you wonder why we don't take you seriously when you say it!
• Boys who constantly brag about how much pussy they get: No one cares but you; trust me!
• Boys who go into detail about their sexual encounters: Okay, really, that shit's fuckin disgusting. No one wants to be minding their own business in English class, then have you all comin up to them, going into intense graphic detail about what you did with your penis last night, okay? Keep that shit to yourself, unless some actually cares enough to ask you about it.
• Chapped lips: LOL
  

Socially Inept?

It's 2:11 AM and I can't sleep, so might as well blog right?

So basically, I think that I've lost my party social skills. I think I've been out of the game for so long I've forgotten how to act at a party, and the fact that I don't drink is definitely a big part of why I feel out of place. It's weird because everyone there is my friend, yet for some reason I still feel socially retarded. In any other setting where everyone's not drunk, I have absolutely no problem, but all of a sudden when it's time to party, as weird as it may sound, I get bored. All my hyperness goes right out the window, and to be honest I think it just might be because I'm just over this whole scene in general. The only reason why I go is really just to see all my friends; because really, kickbacks/parties are just about the only time when almost all your friends from different schools and cities show up just to have a good time. Sure, I mingle and whatnot, but it's not like how it used to be. I remember before I'd get drunk, socialize with almost everyone there, and walk away at the end of the night with at least five new friends. What do I do now? I go, mingle for most of the time, get bored, and end up leaving early. Idk, it's weird. I don't really know what to make of it, whether it's a good thing or a bad thing, but so be it.

Welcome Readers

So I've finally decided to create a real blog for the people who care enough to read it. For a while now, I've had a diary blog that I just used to vent out my personal problems to, but now I think it might be fun to have a public blog to just talk casually about what's going on in my life, and random issues I feel like discussing. But don't get too excited, I have a feeling most of my posts will just be nonsense things I feel like blogging about when I'm bored, but idk, we'll just see how this goes;]