Boys: Girl Advice?

So the other day, a friend of mine mentioned that he had been reading my blogs and suggested that for my next topic I should advise guys on "how to get girls." To be honest, I'm no relationship expert, I've never even been in a real relationship. I'm just another girl with her own thoughts and opinions, and whether or not you choose agree or disagree with them is beyond my control. I speak my mind, and express myself in a manner that assumes that others share the same views as me, and if you don't, so be it. When I first started this blog, I thought it'd be just another random blog where I just talk about nonsense that only a few of my close friends would even bother to read; but to my surprise, it's turned into something I hadn't expected. So what started as random thoughts has turned into.. something else?

So imma help my nigga out and blog some advice, not necessarily on how to get girls, but just some suggestions that could possibly strengthen your chances with a girl you may be tryna get at, let's see how this goes!

• Be yourself!: I know you might hear this all the time, but it's true! Trust me, girls know when a guy is puttin up a front, tryna be something he's not. Embrace who you are and use it to your advantage. If you're a nice guy, BE a nice guy! Don't think that girls like bad boys so you should try acting like one, cus the second you stop being yourself, we can tell right away that something's not right.
• Don't play too many games: Games are, in a way, good at the beginning, but if you play too long, the girl is going to get tired of the same old shit and give up on you cus she thinks you're too complicated (and vice versa)
• Be a gentleman: These days, gentlemen are really hard to find, so doing little things like opening her door, pulling out her seat, offering to pay, or offering to drive really makes you stand out amongst other guys. But be genuine about it. Being a gentleman isn't just something you do when you're trying to get at a girl, then once you get her you give up; it's a lifestyle. Sure, after a while opening doors and whatnot gets tiring, and we won't expect you guys to do it all the time. But being a gentleman should be in your nature, which means treating your girl with respect, and not just YOUR girl, but any girl. And when a girl sees that you know how to treat a lady, that's a MAJOR turn-on. (I personally know a guy like this, and he's soo genuine; I would date him in a second)
  
• Don't over do it: Okay, real shit, I know there's a lot of guys out there who try WAY too hard to impress girls. Whether it's buy showering her with gifts, compliments, or over-playing the "gentleman card." We can tell when a guy is trying too hard, and to be honest, it's a turn-off. Just play it cool, and chances are we'll like the fact that it doesn't seem like you're trying to rush into anything
• Don't be blowin' up their phone 24/7: Okay, it's nice that ya'll are tryna talk to us and stuff, but we have lives of our own, and you texting us all the time is kind of a turn-off cus it makes you seem clingy, and it's a lot easier to get annoyed of you when you're always talkin to us about random shit. Give us some time to miss you! I guarantee that if she likes you enough and you guys haven't talked in a while, she'll end up caving and texting you anyway.
• Be careful what you say: If ya'll are in the super early stages of talking, like you guys kinda almost just left the friend zone, hold off on saying stuff like "I miss you" or "I really wanna see you" especially if you're not at least 90% sure she likes you back, cus if you do, there's a good chance she might be sayin "woah, what's going on" in her head, and you might scare her away
• Don't joke about sensitive things: Even if you think it's just a joke, you never know that the topic you bring up might hit close to home. Things like religion, weight, her past, etc. are probably not good things to joke about, cus it might blow up in your face. Depending on the girl of course, and your prior relationship with her.
• Be spontaneous!: I'm not sure about other girls, but I know that at least for me, spontaneity is something I look for in a guy. I want someone that's down to have a good time, and isn't afraid to surprise me or be surprised. But of course, everything is better in moderation;]
  
• Don't over analyze their actions (this applies to girls too): Just because a girl says something or does something that MAYBE could be a sign that she likes you, doesn't mean she meant it that way, so just be careful, but if those signs are consistent, then maybe she's trying to tell you something
• Play it cool: It works; just trust me on this one. No girl wants a guy that seems too eager to get into anything, or at least I don't; it makes you seem kinda desperate.
• Don't be afraid to hit her up first: Trust me, if we're even KINDA feelin' you, we really do want you guys to hit us up. Don't be scared that she doesn't want to talk to you, cus you'll never know until you try. (Oh, and if she really doesn't want to talk to you, you'll know within the first few texts, and if that's the case, you should just stop. LOL sorry, maybe next time:T)

Well, that's all I can really think of at the moment, but I hope it helps? If not, I'm sorry, I tried hahah