Sluts

So a lot of people that have been reading my blog suggested that for my next topic I should talk about sluts; they didn't quite specify what exactly they meant by that, but apparently sluts are interesting? So, let me begin by clarifying that the word slut is HIGHLY over used these days and is taken out of context in most situations it's used in. So, as usual, to make it easier to read I'm going to break it down into a list of what classifies a slut and what doesn't; and we're off!

OH! But first, let me just mention that a slut can be a BOY OR A GIRL. It's a total double-standard that girls get looked down upon for doing things that a guy gets praised for. A slut is a slut, and a slut, by definition is anyone who is sexually promiscuous.

• A girl who has sex with her boyfriend and only her boyfriend is not a slut: It's only when she's having sex with her boyfriend, but is bangin four other guys on the side; or when she has multiple boyfriends, one after the other within a short period of time, and is hittin ALLA that, is it appropriate for her to be classified as a slut.
• If you make out with a lot of people, IT COUNTS: Just because you're not having intercourse, it doesn't mean you're not displaying slutty behavior. Let's just say, whether it's cookies or cake you're passin around town, either way, everyone within the tri-state area is gettin' a little somethin' somethin'
• Some girls are "too nice", but most girls just use it as an excuse: Look, being "too nice" is just a nicer way of being classified as easy. Look at it this way, if a guy can easily ask you to perform sexual favors for him, and you're "too nice" to say no, you're easy. Sorry, I know it sucks to hear, but it is what it is. Like really, if you wanna be nice, walk him to his car or something, don't dome him up once you get there
  
• Oral and manual sex counts as sex: Again, just because his penis doesn't enter your vagina, doesn't mean it doesn't count. Giving out free handjobs is just as bad as having promiscuous sex
• A reputation as a slut never goes away: I know it sucks, and when it comes to this, people can change, but a reputation as a slut will forever haunt you unless you meet someone who knows nothing about your promiscuous past. People talk, and most people these days can't keep a secret, so if you domed up Alejandro in the bathroom at Jack in the Box during his lunch break last week, I guarantee that everyone and their mom has already heard about it. Something about "sluts", everyone is always so concerned about what they're up to, so be aware that if you do something, people are going to talk about it, and when you do finally meet that special person that makes you want to change your ways, he's going to hear about it, and it's going to make it a lot harder for him to trust you, or like you, or in some cases.. respect you. I know it sucks to hear, but I personally know people who've gone through it, and you can't imagine the pain and regret that they go through because of their past slutty mistakes.
  
• Guys can be classified as sluts too, and in the long run they're worse off: This is referring to the bullet point above. Look, bottom line is, is that no girl wants a slut for a boyfriend. Sure those kind of boys are fun to mess around with, but no girl really takes them seriously because we don't trust them. For some odd reason, guys don't mind dating a "slutty" girl as much as girls mind dating a "slutty" boy, idk, it's weird. So if you're a slutty guy that's finally found "the one" that's going to make you change your ways, but she has a hard time believing that you'll really change, you're going to get your heart broken, and you're going to have no one else to blame but yourself. Sorry:[
  
• Being a slut doesn't necessarily make you a bad person: Just because a slut might have an "overly healthy sexual appetite," and may have "little less than strong values" doesn't mean that he/she is an evil or corrupt being. A slut's just a slut, so be it.
  
• If you know a slut, don't call her out on it, even if it's just a joke: Alright, so really, calling someone out on being a slut especially in public is just plain rude (This mostly happens, though, in a joking manner.) If a girl is a slut, chances are she probably knows, but being called out on it can really offend her. To be honest, in my opinion, she has no right to be offended, she put it on herself. But imagine if you were overweight and someone kept throwing fat jokes in your face, like seriously, how much would that hurt you. And what's worse, is that she can't even defend herself, cus it's true! So yeah, if you know one, just keep your comments to yourself, it's just polite.

P.S. I just used girls as an example in most of the bullet points, but this applies to guys too.